In the post before, I mentioned that families always have and always will encounter crisis. The fact of the matter is, we each individually handle situations differently. Especially men and women. Because of these differences, a lot of misunderstanding can be created. There is a way to solve this.
We must counsel together with our spouses. In our church, we are led by the Prophet, his counselors and the 12 Apostles. Under the direction of God, they lead His church. That is 15 people. 15 men who are all seeking the will of God. How do they do it? Each week they counsel together. The pattern they use in their counsels can be a pattern that each married couple should follow. It is inspired.
I felt that I should include some key components of this pattern of counseling. First, begin showing love and appreciation for one another. This will create an atmosphere of openness, and love. Second, the leaders of the church meet in a sacred place every Thursday, ( the temple). Find a place to counsel together, your home can be that sacred special place. Third, find a time each week to counsel with one another., Make it a priority, have an agenda of the things that and matters that you will discuss. My advice is to open and close with a prayer, to invite the Spirit's guidance. Lastly, end with a treat, or something! Make it an enjoyable experience for both of you.
As a missionary each week, we did something called Companionship Inventory each week. This was a time to discuss together. I found that it was a great way to understand my companion better, and to work together more efficiently. I know that this pattern of counseling is inspired and it will benefit the family greatly.
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I felt that I should include some key components of this pattern of counseling. First, begin showing love and appreciation for one another. This will create an atmosphere of openness, and love. Second, the leaders of the church meet in a sacred place every Thursday, ( the temple). Find a place to counsel together, your home can be that sacred special place. Third, find a time each week to counsel with one another., Make it a priority, have an agenda of the things that and matters that you will discuss. My advice is to open and close with a prayer, to invite the Spirit's guidance. Lastly, end with a treat, or something! Make it an enjoyable experience for both of you.
As a missionary each week, we did something called Companionship Inventory each week. This was a time to discuss together. I found that it was a great way to understand my companion better, and to work together more efficiently. I know that this pattern of counseling is inspired and it will benefit the family greatly.
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