Monday, December 15, 2014

Blended Families

Have you ever seen the movie "Yours, Mine, and Ours?" it is a story of a blended family. Children from two different households living under one roof. That can be an equation for craziness! The thing is though, it actually isn't even that uncommon these days. Did you know that most children in the United States, 60%, will spend some of their life living with someone other than both of their biological parents. There are many families whose parents are separated because of divorce, death, or some other reason. These families may be combined for many different reasons like, death in the family, divorce, etc....
Combining these families will take major effort and coordination from all members of the family. 


To help this transition be smooth parents must be constantly communicating with one another. Parenting styles must be addressed. They must be on the same page of how they will encounter problematic situations. Also, as a family all must be sensitive and patient to the needs and feelings of others. Though it might be a crazy journey, forming a blended family is not an impossible one. Love, empathy, and communication are the key to success. 

Saturday, December 6, 2014

Parenting

There are many different styles of parenting.  These different styles can come from our different backgrounds, upbringings, and personalities. We may not know how to respond in a situation so we react how our parents did.

I could spend a lot of time focusing on what each parent style is, what effects it has on children, etc... but I believe that above all is love. No one is perfect. There are no perfect parents! We might not have all the answers, or all of the strategies... but what we can do is love our children. We can recognize that the almighty being, is the Father of all. He is perfect in His wisdom. He loves the children more than we can imagine, if we turn to Him in humble prayer, He will guide us and show us how to be the best parents for our children.
Our Heavenly Father has shown an example of how we can parent our children. Look to Him.